13 – Changing Change

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Make different decisions about the same stimulus.
ie: When someone triggers you the ‘wrong’ way,
     you no longer ‘Blow your top’ (or cry)
Yeah, yeah, I know, if you don’t blow your top you’re positive they’ll just continue.
So you think that NOT changing will ‘show them’

Well, how many times have you done that, and, has it?

The above does, in actuality, ‘work’!
Oh, at first they’ll do it again, but then you repeat your new response again. They’ll notice that and change their input.
OR you can say to them…
OR … well, that’s the point! Who knows what the ‘OR’ is!

There is an OR to change, and it’s other than what you think.

Explore!

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