120 Give & Take

Many years ago when I smoked, a friend offered me a Cuban cigar (Legal in Canada!).

He only had two left.

If I took one – and he did – there would be none left.

So I politely refused and thanked him.

That’s when he got mad at me.

“What’s wrong with you,” he said. “Why can’t you give a little?”

“But I am giving” I replied. “I’m refusing to take your last cigar, much as I’d like it.”

“That’s exactly what I mean,” he countered,

“By refusing me the pleasure of giving, you take away from me.

Anyone can buy cigars. Not many can enjoy sharing their last one with a friend.

You give me that by taking it.”

Think of a child offering you something they made.

Their increased pleasure when you take it from them.

Give by taking.

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