A<\/strong>) She walked into the room completely at ease, and completely naked. <\/p>\n A<\/strong>)\u00a0He shot her twice to\u00a0make sure he killed her. <\/p>\n We can not conclude \/judge \/evaluate unless we can place A<\/strong>) in some sort of Contex<\/span>t. ie: attach a B<\/strong>) to A<\/strong>)<\/p>\n <\/p>\n It’s not what<\/em> but in what contex<\/span>t<\/em> that makes all the difference.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Yet\u00a0you<\/span> don’t usually attach a contex<\/span>t to your<\/span> actions. <\/p>\n “I got mad \/cried again<\/strong>.” Yes. BUT was it the same contex<\/span>t? Or was it a much stronger one, which means that you are improving!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n “I made another mistake<\/strong>.” OK. Was it the same mistake as the last time? (Same Contex<\/span>t?)<\/em> No? So, you are learning!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n “Here I go again<\/strong>.” Yes. Does it take more<\/strong> to cause that to happen? (Different Contex<\/span>t!)<\/em> Then things are<\/strong> getting better.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n It’s so easy to ignore ever changing Contex<\/span>ts and self-depreciate strictly because of our actions.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n The next time you accuse yourself of something check what the Contex<\/span>t is. <\/p>\n ————————–<\/p>\n These are related:<\/strong><\/p>\n 4<\/strong> Common Courtesy<\/a> – 13<\/strong> Changing Change<\/a> – 14<\/strong> Eliminating Triggers<\/a> – 18<\/strong> Being Triggered<\/a><\/p>\n 26<\/strong> Discounting Self<\/a> – 30<\/strong> Ever-changing Relationships<\/a> – 35<\/strong> One + One = Two!<\/a> – 57<\/strong> Helicopter<\/a><\/p>\n 73<\/strong> Killing Frogs<\/a> – 90<\/strong> Good\/Bad<\/a> – 96<\/strong> Habits<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" A) She walked into the room completely at ease, and completely naked. B) Either she’s alone, or at home, or at a Nudist Camp, (or 3 years old!) or… well, you get the idea. A)\u00a0He shot her twice to\u00a0make sure he killed her. B)\u00a0Then he took the knife she stabbed him with out of […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[28,43],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-105","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-insight","7":"category-self-image","8":"entry"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=105"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=105"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=105"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=105"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nB<\/strong>) Either she’s alone, or at home, or at a Nudist Camp, (or 3 years old!)<\/em> or… well, you get the idea.<\/p>\n
\nB<\/strong>)\u00a0Then he took the knife she stabbed him with out of his arm, or then he ran away, or then he …<\/p>\n
\nYou are all too quick to ignore the situation \/contex<\/span>t and condemn your action.<\/p>\n
\nYou’ll be surprised at how much you are<\/strong> improving.<\/p>\n