Are you hungry? <\/p>\n Do you want to buy this car? <\/p>\n Will you stay for my whole speech? <\/p>\n Do you get negative \/bad emotions hearing \u2018no<\/strong>‘? <\/p>\n Are you hungry? <\/p>\n Do you want to buy this car? <\/p>\n Will you stay for my whole speech? <\/p>\n Once you understand people have their own individuality and simply express themselves, then \u2018no<\/strong>‘ becomes Information-about-them rather than a negative reflection about you. <\/p>\n ————————–<\/p>\n These are related:<\/strong><\/p>\n 11<\/strong> Feedback<\/a> – 18<\/strong> Being Triggered<\/a> – 27<\/strong> Responses<\/a> – 48<\/strong> Saying No<\/a> – 53<\/strong> Guilt<\/a> – 55<\/strong> Oxygen<\/a><\/p>\n 71<\/strong> Nice<\/a> – 79<\/strong> Truth Time<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Are you hungry? No. Do you want to buy this car? No. Will you stay for my whole speech? No. Do you get negative \/bad emotions hearing \u2018no‘? Realize the other person actually exists and is conveying information about themselves, not commenting on you. Are you hungry? No. I just ate. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[7,18,43,46],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-124","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-communications","7":"category-fear","8":"category-self-image","9":"category-truth","10":"entry"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/124","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=124"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/124\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=124"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=124"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=124"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nNo<\/strong>.<\/p>\n
\nNo<\/strong>.<\/p>\n
\nNo<\/strong>.<\/p>\n
\nRealize the other person actually exists and is conveying information about themselves<\/em>, not<\/span> commenting on you.<\/p>\n
\nNo. I just ate.<\/em><\/p>\n
\nNo. I’m your competition, just trying to see why you’re so successful.<\/em><\/p>\n
\nNo. I have an important appointment but I can stay for the first half.<\/em><\/p>\n
\nThis is their information to<\/em><\/strong> you and not about<\/strong> you, you, you.<\/p>\n