Fights at home? <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Fights at home? <\/p>\n Accelerate the process:<\/em><\/strong> Choose any one<\/strong> thing you have trouble with. <\/p>\n Don’t stop there! Take the next<\/em> step<\/span>.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n ————————–<\/p>\n These are related:<\/strong><\/p>\n 10<\/strong> Progress It<\/a> – 11<\/strong> Feedback<\/a> – 12<\/strong> Change<\/a> – 27<\/strong> Responses<\/a> – 43<\/strong> Desire<\/a><\/p>\n 52<\/strong> Correct Decisions<\/a> – 57<\/strong> Helicopter<\/a> – 67<\/strong> Personal Nag<\/a> – 69<\/strong> Labels<\/a><\/p>\n 70<\/strong> Conclusions<\/a> – 83<\/strong> Being Wrong<\/a> – 95<\/strong> Ring\/Knock<\/a> – 103<\/strong> Ring\/Knock Part 2<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Fights at home? No progress at work? Things just not going right for you? Unless really desperate, we ignore communications that can change us. Effective Communications is a process that goes beyond # 4: Ritual acknowledgment. Basically ‘ignoring’ whatever they say …in a socially polite way! Refuse to listen. Far advanced because it allows […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[7,28],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-128","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-communications","7":"category-insight","8":"entry"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/128","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=128"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/128\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=128"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=128"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=128"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nNo progress at work?
\nThings just not going right for you?
\nUnless really desperate, we ignore<\/strong> communications that can change us.
\nEffective Communications is a process<\/strong> that goes beyond<\/span> # 4:<\/p>\n\n
\nBasically ‘ignoring’ whatever they say …in a socially polite way!<\/span>
\n<\/em><\/li>\n
\nFar advanced because it allows that there’s actually something there to refuse.<\/span>
\n<\/em><\/li>\n
\nSenders tend to give up when this happens: “Aw, just forget it!”<\/span>
\n<\/em><\/li>\n
\nBring in all sorts of counterpoints to explain-away<\/strong> rather than deal-with<\/strong>.<\/span>
\n<\/em><\/li>\n
\n“Doesn’t apply to me, of course, but I see what you’re saying. Interesting.”<\/span>
\n<\/em><\/li>\n
\nIf I were that way, let me see, that would mean I often am \/do thus and so. etc.<\/span>
\n<\/em><\/li>\n
\n<\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n
\nNo progress at work?
\nThings just not going right for you?<\/p>\n
\nWhen someone tells you (or you tell yourself<\/strong>!)<\/em> what’s wrong…
\nDetermine where you are in the Process.
\nCheck the next<\/strong> step because that’s<\/span> where you’re stuck.
\nThen \u2018conscious’ your way through that step.<\/p>\n