When I ask you a question to which I know the answer, I manipulate you.
\nTeachers do this to school children.
\nWith good effect.<\/p>\n
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So, why say this?
\nIf you wonder whether someone is trying to manipulate you,
\nfirst determine, “Do they already know the answer?”
\nIf you think they do, ask yourself:
\n“Why do they ask, if they already know the answer?”<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
You quickly see the reality.<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
Here is how to avoid the manipulation.
\nJust say:
\n“There’s a reason why you’re asking this question, could I know the reason?”<\/p>\n
<\/p>\n
Your tone<\/strong> must be very<\/em><\/strong> off-hand<\/em> for this to work.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n ————————- When I ask you a question to which I know the answer, I manipulate you. Teachers do this to school children. With good effect. So, why say this? If you wonder whether someone is trying to manipulate you, first determine, “Do they already know the answer?” If you think they do, ask yourself: “Why […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[7,8],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-2169","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-communications","7":"category-control","8":"entry"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2169","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2169"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2169\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2169"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2169"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2169"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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