Don\u2019t stand too close or you’ll always<\/strong> place the darts in the bull\u2019s-eye. <\/p>\n That\u2019s how to play darts properly. <\/p>\n When you were young you didn\u2019t know, or didn\u2019t know better. <\/p>\n Keep playing darts from where you are with the results you have, or change positions and win more. <\/p>\n ————————–<\/p>\n These are related:<\/strong><\/p>\n # 5<\/strong> Decision<\/a> – 10<\/strong> Progress It<\/a> – 12<\/strong> Change<\/a> – 22<\/strong> Attitude<\/a> – 24<\/strong> The Wedge<\/a> – 29<\/strong> Who’s in Charge?<\/a><\/p>\n 31<\/strong> Being at-Cause<\/a> – 35<\/strong> One + One = Two!<\/a> – 40<\/strong> So What!<\/a> – 41<\/strong> Elephants<\/a> – 43<\/strong> Desire<\/a> – 46<\/strong> Always<\/a><\/p>\n 57<\/strong> Helicopter<\/a> – 58<\/strong> Needs<\/a> – 63<\/strong> Free Will<\/a> – 73<\/strong> Killing Frogs<\/a> – 82<\/strong> Limitations<\/a> – 87<\/strong> Barriers<\/a> – 96<\/strong> Habits<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Don\u2019t stand too close or you’ll always place the darts in the bull\u2019s-eye. And not too far away so you never hit the board. Stand just far enough away to win, but not all the time\u2026 And lose, but not all the time. That\u2019s how to play darts properly. Remind you of your life? […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[6,8,31,32,37,47],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-317","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-change","7":"category-control","8":"category-limitations","9":"category-luck","10":"category-obstacles","11":"category-wealth","12":"entry"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/317","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=317"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/317\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=317"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=317"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=317"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nAnd not too far away so you never<\/strong> hit the board.
\nStand just far enough away to win, but not all the time\u2026
\nAnd lose, but not all the time.<\/p>\n
\nRemind you of your life?
\nEnough money to pay the bills but not much left over.
\nAnd, now and then, an unexpected loss (something breaks or needs servicing, etc.) to absorb any extra money.<\/p>\n
\nThat explains the past and why you were there, then.
\nWhy are you still there now!
\nThat you were<\/strong> there in the past is no reason to choose to stay there now<\/strong>.
\nUnless you like playing darts.
\nNot too close to win all the time.
\nNor too far to lose all the time.
\nBut a certain positioning that makes you sometimes a winner but not often enough to get out of where you are, yet not so rarely to propel yourself out because of lack of success.<\/p>\n
\nYour choice.
\nStart with something small and annoying that you want to change anyways, and just do it!<\/p>\n