The greater the fa\u00e7ade you construct, the greater you<\/strong> obviously are. <\/p>\n Just how clearly do you see ‘through’ the people around you? <\/p>\n People will not be surprised when you stop the fa\u00e7ade that never fools them anyways. <\/p>\n ————————–<\/p>\n These are related:<\/strong><\/p>\n # 24 <\/strong>The Wedge<\/a> – <\/strong>26 <\/strong>Discounting Self<\/a> – <\/strong>46 <\/strong>Always<\/a> –<\/strong> 57 <\/strong>Helicopter<\/a> – 64 <\/strong>Natural Talents<\/a> –<\/strong> 71 <\/strong>Nice<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n <\/strong>81 <\/strong>Second Impressions<\/a> –<\/strong> 86 <\/strong>Don’t be Yourself!<\/a> – 92 <\/strong>Strength<\/a> –<\/strong> 99 <\/strong>Perfection!<\/a> –<\/strong> 100 <\/strong>Ransom Notes<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n <\/strong><\/strong>110<\/strong> <\/strong>Nothing<\/a> – <\/strong>118<\/strong> <\/strong>Right!<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" The greater the fa\u00e7ade you construct, the greater you obviously are. Take a good strong look at all your abilities as proven by the very fact that you have constructed this excellent fa\u00e7ade. Then realize:\u00a0that is you. You did this. Whatever the reason you started this\u00a0fa\u00e7ade, you can no longer doubt what people will see […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[16,38,43],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-322","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-facade","7":"category-personal-growth","8":"category-self-image","9":"entry"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/322","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=322"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/322\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=322"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=322"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=322"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nTake a good strong look at all your abilities as proven<\/strong><\/em> by the very fact that you have<\/strong> constructed this excellent fa\u00e7ade.
\nThen realize:\u00a0that is<\/em><\/strong> you. You did this. Whatever the reason you started this\u00a0fa\u00e7ade, you can no longer doubt what people will see ‘underneath’. They will see the brilliance that constructed it.
\nYou!
\nNow apply your abilities to (slowly!)<\/em> undoing this fa\u00e7ade. Call it getting older. Call it a sudden understanding. Call it whatever saves you embarrassment when you change from one thing to another. But change.<\/p>\n
\nIt’s not that you see through them so easily and clearly,
\nit’s that THEY see through you<\/strong> that clearly as well!
\nWhen you look at someone else just how much do\u00a0you<\/strong> really see BUT don\u2019t let on that you do.
\nYou don\u2019t really think you are the only one who sees that clearly, do you?<\/p>\n
\nThey will<\/strong> be impressed that you can \u00a0… when they can\u2019t!<\/p>\n