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\nThey believe that to\u00a0admit<\/strong> they spill anything, is a mistake.
\nThey believe to deny doing anything wrong ‘makes’ you Right.
\nYet they walk around with food stains on their clothes!<\/p>\n
\nYou think by denying, or ignoring it, others won’t see it.
\nAnd you’ll therefore Be-Right<\/strong>.
\nBut you<\/strong><\/em> see their<\/strong> food stains, right?
\n(What makes you think they don’t see yours<\/strong>!)<\/em><\/p>\n
\nThey are wrong once<\/em><\/strong> and change, so from then on, they are<\/strong> Right.<\/p>\n
\nLook at the situation you are in now.
\nIs it succeeding?
\nIf not change.
\nEven if it makes you ‘wrong’ to change, from then on you will<\/strong> be Right.
\nRight?
\nRight!<\/p>\n