I’ve been married for 45 years. <\/p>\n We use ‘Tuesday<\/strong>‘ whether for marriage \/fights or any other emotional overload. <\/p>\n When you decide to quit your job or smack someone, say to yourself that you’ll do it on Tuesday if you still want to by then.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n I’ve been married for 45 years. (3 children, 2 dogs) <\/p>\n ————————–<\/p>\n These are related:<\/strong><\/p>\n # 5<\/strong> Decision<\/a> – 7<\/strong> Disaster<\/a> – 11<\/strong> Feedback<\/a> – 27<\/strong> Responses<\/a><\/p>\n 30<\/strong> Ever-changing Relationships<\/a> – 75<\/strong> Same<\/a> – 79<\/strong> Truth Time<\/a> – 108<\/strong> Emotions<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" I’ve been married for 45 years. It has not always been smooth (!) We often got into fights that fit the saying: “Divorce? Never! But Murder…” We use ‘Tuesday‘ whether for marriage \/fights or any other emotional overload. We agreed ahead-of-time that whatever we decide, we’ll do it on Tuesday. When the yelling gets […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[10,15,17,28,34],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-396","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-decisions","7":"category-emotions","8":"category-family","9":"category-insight","10":"category-marriage","11":"entry"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/396","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=396"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/396\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=396"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=396"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=396"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nIt has not always been smooth (!)
\nWe often got into fights that fit the saying: “Divorce? Never! But Murder…”<\/em><\/p>\n
\nWe agreed ahead-of-time<\/em> that whatever we decide, we’ll do it on Tuesday.
\nWhen the yelling gets too much and we decide to divorce, we invoke our Tuesday rule:
\nIf by Tuesday we still want to, then we will.<\/strong>
\nSame with worry, being mad at our children, kicking them out of the house, handling parents, etc.<\/p>\n
\nIt works.<\/p>\n