Are you perfect?<\/p>\n
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So why does it bother you when someone points that out?<\/p>\n
If they actually show you a better way to do something.<\/p>\n
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Are you perfect?<\/p>\n
So, they are showing you how to improve!<\/p>\n
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Taking what they say personally = criticism.\u00a0(see\u00a0#\u00a0132<\/a>)<\/em><\/p>\n But what if they do<\/strong> have a better idea.<\/p>\n Then you are learning and improving yourself.<\/p>\n Getting-it-Right vs Being-Right (see # 118<\/a>)<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Decide to Grow, or to Defend.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Check: Is what is suggested a better way or just a different way?<\/p>\n If your way is not better,<\/p>\n then the next time, you are willingly<\/em><\/strong> doing \u00a0… less<\/strong>!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n For once, just do it their way. And see what happens.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n ————————–<\/p>\n These are related:<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n #\u00a0 13 <\/strong>Changing Change<\/a> – 57 <\/strong>Helicopter<\/a> – 79 <\/strong>Truth Time<\/a> – 92 <\/strong>Strength<\/a> – 118 <\/strong>Right!<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n 123 <\/strong>Ignorance<\/a> – 127 <\/strong>Not-Me<\/a> – 130 <\/strong>Collecting Solutions<\/a> – 146 <\/strong>Always Right<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n