You rarely physically touch any other human being.<\/p>\n

Maybe a hand shake.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

So just how do you go about influencing each other?<\/p>\n

Verbally and Mentally.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Someone says something and you Mentally confirm it.<\/p>\n

“You should lose some weight then you’ll feel better about yourself.”<\/em><\/p>\n

And you silently (Mentally) agree.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

You give away your power when you reverse reality like this.<\/p>\n

How much more power you have if you just reverse it back to<\/strong> reality.<\/p>\n

Reality is<\/p>\n

“I will lose weight when I feel better about myself.”<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

\u201cMy job would be much better if that person stopped bothering me\u201d <\/em><\/p>\n

Becomes<\/p>\n

“When I don\u2019t let that person bother me anymore my job will be much better.”<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

What keeps you from getting what you want?<\/p>\n

What prevents you from having more money?<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Listen to your answer, and then reverse it.<\/p>\n

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