“Oh, I can’t approach him, he just got a raise.”<\/p>\n
Everyone ADDS each event to all previous events and bases their response on the\u00a0total:<\/strong><\/p>\n *\u00a0He is furious because the raise came too little and too late, … once again!<\/p>\n * He is now silently looking for another opportunity.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n “I want to tell you how happy I am about my new raise\/promotion.”<\/p>\n Phooey, I can’t approach him.<\/em><\/p>\n Do you know how many friends ask him if they could get a job at his place.<\/p>\n He’d be pleased to give a referral.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n I admire people’s ability to handle what I can’t.<\/p>\n Or remain encouraged with something that would discourage me.<\/p>\n They experience the same event as I, but add to a different past series and respond to that total<\/strong>.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Stop stopping yourself because of your<\/strong> total.<\/p>\n It’s their<\/strong> total they act on, not yours.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n ————————–<\/p>\n To reinforce this read any two below:<\/strong><\/p>\n #\u00a0 3 <\/strong>Cumulative Knowledge<\/a> – 14 <\/strong>Eliminating Triggers<\/a> – 18 <\/strong>Being Triggered<\/a> <\/strong><\/p>\n 20 <\/strong>The ‘Gift’ of Knowledge<\/a> – 21 <\/strong>Interpretation<\/a> – 22 <\/strong>Attitude<\/a> – 25 <\/strong>How Old are You?<\/a> <\/strong><\/p>\n 27 <\/strong>Responses<\/a> – 35 <\/strong>One + One = Two!<\/a> – 46 <\/strong>Always<\/a> –\u00a0 103 <\/strong>Ring Knock Part 2<\/a> <\/strong><\/p>\n