You know what they are. They are the tiny things that make the machinery work. Without keeping them oiled things screech to a halt. Literally. In human terms, the oil is a smile, a thank you, an apology. Smile too much, apologize too much and you add too much oil onto your Ball Bearings. Things do NOT go better because you under \/over do the oil. They actually go worse. When you want things to improve STOP what you are doing and ask yourself: Do I need to ADD or LESSEN (yes, lessen<\/strong>!)<\/em> the amount of oil this time? ————————– To reinforce this read any two below:<\/strong> #11 <\/strong>Feedback<\/a> – 27 <\/strong>Responses<\/a> – 71 <\/strong>Nice<\/a> – 86 <\/strong>Don’t be Yourself!<\/a> – 175 <\/strong>Self Worth<\/a> <\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You know what they are. They are the tiny things that make the machinery work. Without keeping them oiled things screech to a halt. Literally. In human terms, the oil is a smile, a thank you, an apology. Smile too much, apologize too much and you add too much oil onto your Ball Bearings. Things […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[7,16],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-649","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-communications","7":"category-facade","8":"entry"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/649","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=649"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/649\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=649"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=649"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mentaldoodle.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=649"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}