A gentleman and his nephew walk on the wooden sidewalk on their way to worship.<\/p>\n

A lady comes along wearing her finest dress.<\/p>\n

The man pulls the child off the sidewalk and into the mud.<\/p>\n

As the lady passes he takes off his hat and says, “Good morning, ma’am.”<\/p>\n

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They get back on the sidewalk and repeat this several times.<\/p>\n

Then the town prostitute comes along and the man jerks his nephew off and says with every bit as much courtesy, “Good morning, ma’am.”<\/p>\n

“But, uncle,” cries the nephew, “she’s the town prostitute!”<\/p>\n

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“Son, I don’t do it because they are ladies, I do it because I am a gentleman.”<\/p>\n

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Of course, man, woman or child, the premise is the same:<\/p>\n

Inner directed action rather than externally triggered reaction.<\/p>\n

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To reinforce this read any two below:<\/strong><\/p>\n

# 4<\/strong> Common Courtesy<\/a> –\u00a0 27<\/strong> Responses<\/a> –\u00a0 42<\/strong> Leadership<\/a> –\u00a0 115<\/strong> Give, Get<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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