Communications

Short things can also be seen as cold things. Long ones as warm. An abrupt 'no' is Short /Cold. "Well, I will think about it but I must … [Read more...]

260 Manipulation #2

When I ask you a question to which I know the answer, I manipulate you. Teachers do this to school children. With good … [Read more...]

267 Strangers & Ships

I am not as comfortable with you as I'd like to be. Oh, why is that? Well, you sort of act like a stranger to /with me. Hmmm, how … [Read more...]

270 Hamburgers

To make a hamburger you always start with the bun. Then you put some condiments ( mustard, relish, onions etc.) Then the meat. Then … [Read more...]

279 Point of View

My Daughter-in-Law was telling me how Pleasant your. Thats you view site I wanted do mode demploi viagra benalex.sk . Finish not dewy … [Read more...]

281 Ask, Speak

Take turns rather than always be the one to Ask or Speak. Even in an interview. Are you married? Children? How much … [Read more...]

288 Personality

288 Personality How do you (or anyone) show your personality? Your words carry /broadcast only 10% of your personality. Your … [Read more...]

292 Denying

Red scarves don’t bother me. OK. If you say so. But why don’t you say Red scarves don’t AMUSE me. Well, because they … [Read more...]

306 Parent-ing

Parents in China are all extremely well respected. And obeyed. After all, they know best. Years and years of experience, … [Read more...]

308 Red

You are being completely ignored in the very things that are important to you. And I can prove it! Imagine a … [Read more...]

310 Flexibility

If I am not flexible then I must restrict you to what I can respond to. I do this by: Finishing your sentences for you (but … [Read more...]

311 Telling Lies

Yes, of course I lie. So do you. In fact, I bet everyone lies in every country. "Am I fat?" "Am I … [Read more...]

313 Fact vs Opinion

Everyone has an Opinion. Opinions are not Facts, obviously. Yet most things we think /act on are Opinions. OK, … [Read more...]

317 90 Minute Cycle

Day ... Night ... Day ... Night ... An obvious Cycle. The 90 minute cycle is one you can use virtually every day of your … [Read more...]

320 Description vs Judgement

There is a difference between Description and Judgment. With Description you say almost anything you want and mean absolutely nothing by it. … [Read more...]

323 Perfect Person

Yes, I know you know people aren't perfect. Well, except when they criticize you. Then they magically become Perfect. Otherwise you … [Read more...]

324 10%

This is the distortion between what you say and the # of times it's repeated. The first time it's repeated = 90% accurate Then 80% … [Read more...]

333 Me Message

All too often I forget people have their own ideas, their own life, their own ... everything. That's when Me Messages come into … [Read more...]

339 Three Voices

Here is a technique I find very useful for me. I created three 'voices' in my head: Voice 1 always tries to agree with me Voice 2 … [Read more...]

353 Oil, Grease, etc.

We all understand the idea of bribery. It helps smooth the way, Grease the wheels, Oil the machinery, etc. Ok so? Well, … [Read more...]

364 Seven Years

My 7th year doing Doodles! Here's 10 Random Thoughts. (Just to be different.) 1. You change at 7 year intervals. Think … [Read more...]

365 Kitchen Table

I learned more around our kitchen table than probably anywhere else. I memorized more data in "school" of course. But it's … [Read more...]

387 Your Sub-Conscious Mind

Just say, “We want your wife to call now” anytime over the 3 days that I’m here. My wife would always call within a couple of minutes of … [Read more...]

407 Tell-Tale Adjectives

This one is so very simple yet extremely informative, and well worth reading! Just look for the adjectives. They tell the … [Read more...]

412 No One

What if you can get your wishes and desires without telling anyone what you want or even that you want something. No. One. Wouldn't … [Read more...]

433 Labels #2

Just saw a movie called EXODUS.In the movie Moses and "God" work together to 'force' the Egyptian King to release the Hebrew people from … [Read more...]

443 Read a Book

A most unusual thing you do in life is, ... read a book!Think about it. Once written, a book never changes. It’s essentially a series of … [Read more...]

447 Imagine Fear

The solution to fear is to Imagine it.Why? Because your mind cannot tell the difference from outer input: your five senses;and inner input: … [Read more...]