Fassade

71 Nett

Ein Techniker kam, um meinen (aufwendigen!) Fernseher zu reparieren. Wegen fehlender Teile und Schwierigkeiten mit dem Zoll blieb er für … [Read more...]

76 Zunehmende Aufmerksamkeit

Es ist unhöflich zu starren. Besonders auf Menschen, die gerade von tiefen Emotionen aufgewühlt werden. Nun lernen wir aber die anderen … [Read more...]

81 Zweite Eindrücke

Am Eingang hat mich jemand herzlich begrüßt und mir freundlich die Hand geschüttelt. Später habe ich gesehen, wie er den Kellner runter … [Read more...]

83 Unrecht haben

Als Berater habe ich viel mit Menschen zu tun. In einer bestimmten Firma treffen wir uns im Konferenzraum und beginnen mit einem Bericht … [Read more...]

86 Sei nicht Du selbst!

Es gibt nichts Schlimmeres, als einen groben Menschen, der besonders „grob“ sein möchte ODER einen netten Menschen, der besonders … [Read more...]

116 Fassade

Je großartiger die Fassade ist, die Du darstellst, desto großartiger bist offensichtlich DU! Schau Dir mal alle deine Fähigkeiten genau … [Read more...]

118 Richtig!

Es gibt Leute, die laufen mit Flecken auf der Weste herum. Sie glauben, zuzugeben, dass sie gepatzt haben, wäre ein Fehler. Sie glauben, … [Read more...]

175 Selbstachtung

Einer meiner Freunde war anderen Menschen gegenüber übermäßig aufmerksam. Eines Tages wurde er vor einer Gruppe von Freunden, die zu … [Read more...]

184 Von außen nach Innen

Dinge von ‚Außen‘ (Welt) beeinflussen Dich. Von Außen nach Innen. Oder sie werden von Dir beeinflusst. Von Innen nach … [Read more...]

198 Wiederholung

Wenn Du in jeder Situation in immer wieder exakt der gleichen Art reagierst, dann reagierst du nicht auf ein Ereignis, sondern du etablierst … [Read more...]

204 Apologize /Forgive

They are the same thing. To not Apologize /Forgive someone is to indicate you have a reason not to. My friend never forgave her … [Read more...]

232 Justify

Or learn. Those are the two things that can happen when something unwanted occurs. It's not my fault because... means I … [Read more...]

235 Ball Bearings

You know what they are. They are the tiny things that make the machinery work. Without keeping them oiled things screech to a halt. … [Read more...]

240 Irreplaceable

I'm always looking for someone to promote so I can be free to expand. I call one person and ask her how she is doing. “Excellent. I'm … [Read more...]

265 Before

Danny was my secretary. He would type my letters (1970's!). And he'd make a mistake on almost every one. "Danny, do you … [Read more...]

267 Strangers & Ships

I am not as comfortable with you as I'd like to be. Oh, why is that? Well, you sort of act like a stranger to /with me. Hmmm, how … [Read more...]

271 Pedestals

The more you consider someone a Hero the higher the pedestal you place them on. The higher the pedestal, the less room they have to … [Read more...]

292 Denying

Red scarves don’t bother me. OK. If you say so. But why don’t you say Red scarves don’t AMUSE me. Well, because they … [Read more...]

307 Sniper

This is just a guess: you are not a Sniper. So you don't take infinite pains / time to aim and adjust and re-aim and re-adjust … [Read more...]

310 Flexibility

If I am not flexible then I must restrict you to what I can respond to. I do this by: Finishing your sentences for you (but … [Read more...]

330 Barriers vs Filters

I wash my hands before eating = Filter I must wash my hands before eating = Barrier When camping you would get very hungry! No … [Read more...]

333 Me Message

All too often I forget people have their own ideas, their own life, their own ... everything. That's when Me Messages come into … [Read more...]

338 Me First

If I put myself down before you do, you won't /can't put me down. I point out my flaws before you do, so I am 'safe'. I deride myself … [Read more...]

354 Results

When you run a Sprint you better not make any mistakes. Even one tenth of a second off and you might well lose. Many believe life is a … [Read more...]

357 Recipes

Do you always use the same 'recipe' no matter what you do? The fact this particular recipe works well in one situation does not make it work … [Read more...]

358 Emotional Muscles

This oneMy is... Reccommend "shop" They much doxycycline for sale no prescription softer-than-usual like the clopidogrel 65mg adding … [Read more...]

364 Seven Years

My 7th year doing Doodles! Here's 10 Random Thoughts. (Just to be different.) 1. You change at 7 year intervals. Think … [Read more...]

365 Kitchen Table

I learned more around our kitchen table than probably anywhere else. I memorized more data in "school" of course. But it's … [Read more...]

391 Smoke & Pray

If you Smoke while you Pray You are a despicable, insensitive, non-respectful person! However If you Pray while you Smoke you are a … [Read more...]

423 Meet the ‚New‘ You

Think of yourself as you were, around 10 years old.What did you look like?Now think of yourself today.What do you look like ‘now’?Your body … [Read more...]

440 Reverse Sense

Would you say to a three year old: Please play with the stove. And while you are at it, stick your fingers in the electric socket. … [Read more...]