Gewohnheiten

1 Das Riesenrad

Stell dir mal vor, das Leben wäre ein Riesenrad. Wie auch immer, auf jeden Fall bekommst Du erst „bezahlt“, wenn das Riesenrad eine … [Read more...]

4 Normale Freundlichkeit

Nur weil Du kannst, heißt das noch lange nicht, dass Du es sollst: * jemanden schlagen * zu viel denken * Dich selbst … [Read more...]

5 Entscheidung

Alles, was Du tust, ist das Ergebnis einer Entscheidung. Wenn Du Dich nicht entscheidest, wird es jemand anders tun. Jede … [Read more...]

6 Nahrung für Dich

Sagen wir mal, Musik ist Nahrung. Farbe ist Nahrung. Ein Lächeln. Wie ernährst Du Dich zur Zeit? Viel zu leicht verzichten wir darauf, … [Read more...]

9 Sorgen

Sorgen: Etwas, das ich noch nicht gelöst habe, in meinem Bewusstsein halten, damit ich nicht vergesse, dass ich es noch nicht gelöst habe … [Read more...]

10 Fortschritt

Vor einigen Jahren habe ich eine Dame mit einem gutem Ruf als wirklich effektive Trainerin angeworben. Im Grunde hatte sie eine … [Read more...]

11 Feedback

Feedback funktioniert! Du fährst mit 80 in einer 60er Zone. Du fährst an einem Polizeiauto, mit Polizisten drin, vorbei. Die … [Read more...]

13 Anders ändern

Triff in der gleichen Situation eine andere Entscheidung. Zum Beispiel: Wenn Dich jemand ärgert, fährst Du nicht mehr aus der Haut. (oder … [Read more...]

14 Auslöser (Reize) eliminieren

Wir haben manchmal Erinnerungen an Erfahrungen, an die zu denken immer noch schmerzvoll für uns ist. Eine vergangene Peinlichkeit, … [Read more...]

16 Nachfassen

Erinnerst Du Dich an das? „Bitte höflich und direkt um das, was Du willst. Geh das Risiko ein, geschlagen zu werden, es könnte sein, dass … [Read more...]

23 Werde kreativer!

Um es ganz einfach zu halten (Keep It Super Simple) arbeitet das Gehirn mit Mustern und Wiederholungen. Um kreativer zu werden, musst Du … [Read more...]

24 Der Keil

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26 Deinen Wert mindern

Stell Dir vor Du wärst eine Registrierkasse. Wann immer Du etwas Gutes getan hast, gibst Du ein Guthaben ein. Wenn Du etwas gemacht … [Read more...]

33 „Eine 5 lösen“

Keiner von Euch kreiert absichtlich Probleme ...oder doch? Hier ist die Abfolge: 1) Du hast ein Problem 2) Du hast den … [Read more...]

43 Wunsch

Ich sitze beim Jahresmeeting. Dieses Mal gibt es Bongo-Trommeln. Jedes Jahr versuchen sie etwas anderes. (Habe ich schon erwähnt, … [Read more...]

60 Muster

Wenn Du jemand oder etwas anschaust, was genau siehst Du? Oder, um auf den Punkt zu kommen, was siehst Du … [Read more...]

63 Freier Wille

Ein Geist erscheint und sagt zu einem Mann: „ Ich kann Dir geben was Du willst. Ich habe unbegrenzte Macht. Lass uns mit deinem … [Read more...]

96 Gewohnheiten

Du kannst mit einer Gewohnheit nicht brechen. Die neuesten Untersuchungen haben gezeigt, dass wir die Muster /Pfade, die eine Gewohnheit … [Read more...]

97 Vielfalt

Viele von uns nehmen täglich Vitamine und Mineralstoffe als Nahrungsergänzung zu uns. Genauso gehen wir immer wieder in bestimmten … [Read more...]

126 Rote Ampel

Warum stellst Du deinen Motor nicht ab, wenn Du an der roten Ampel stehst? Technisch gesehen, würdest Du vielleicht Benzin … [Read more...]

131 Einmal

„Erinnerst Du dich an dieses Wochenende vor ein paar Monaten…“ „Wie könnte ich das vergessen! Wir haben gegessen, bis wir fast geplatzt … [Read more...]

145 KEIN Feedback

Merkst du, wie schnell deine Augen über den leeren Raum zwischen Titel und dieser Zeile geglitten sind? Jetzt hast du es schon … [Read more...]

151 Rache

Oft hegen wir unseren Ärger auf etwas, was uns jemand getan hat. Oder auch nicht getan hat! Eine Kränkung vor anderen, kein Ansehen, auch … [Read more...]

157 Selbst-Montage

Bei einem Auto-Montageband siehst, wie auf einer Seite einzelne Teile hinein rollen und am anderen Ende fertige Autos heraus kommen. Wenn du … [Read more...]

190 Eine große Sache?

Wir sind in ein Restaurant gegangen, um einen Autokauf (endlich!) zu feiern. Beinahe 200$. Für das Mittagessen. Keine große Sache. Als … [Read more...]

194 F. E. A. R. (Angst)

Falsches Ereignis Anscheinend Real Wie oft haben sich deine Befürchtungen tatsächlich erfüllt? Nicht ungefähr oder beinahe, sondern … [Read more...]

196 Vergangenheit, Gegenwart, Zukunft

Ich schreibe dies ‚jetzt‘ (Samstag, 22.Mai 2010) Und du liest es ‚jetzt‘….nicht 22.Mai 2010 Ich bin deine Vergangenheit und du meine … [Read more...]

198 Wiederholung

Wenn Du in jeder Situation in immer wieder exakt der gleichen Art reagierst, dann reagierst du nicht auf ein Ereignis, sondern du etablierst … [Read more...]

215 Knowing

Count the number of 'F's in this simple sentence: Finished files are the result of years of scientific research. (Play the … [Read more...]

216 Lies

Lies are basically wishes-in-disguise. The fish was THIS big. I wish the fish was this big. I am a rich person. I wish I was a rich … [Read more...]

220 Digging Ditches

Do you mind digging ditches? "Not if the pay is good." Alright, then dig this ditch. It should take a few days. "OK, the … [Read more...]

226 Assertiveness

Taxi drivers in New York City are a realistic bunch. To drive in one of the busiest cities in the world, you do what works. And what … [Read more...]

241 Re-viewing

We think re-viewing a situation over and over somehow helps. We believe we will somehow come up with something we have not thought … [Read more...]

244 Everything and Nothing

We go through life with one of two basic attitudes Everything is allowed, unless specifically prohibited … [Read more...]

250 The Impossible Self-Image

You cannot build a hill that has only one direction. You may want it to go only 'up'. Fine, but it does go both ways. To take … [Read more...]

265 Before

Danny was my secretary. He would type my letters (1970's!). And he'd make a mistake on almost every one. "Danny, do you … [Read more...]

272 Make a Note

This one is so simple, yet almost no one does it! When listening to someone speak, make a note of the idea /thing that causes you to … [Read more...]

286 Bias

He sat in a straight backed chair, in a quiet room, dressed in a three piece suit, with an appropriate back light and read … [Read more...]

289 Don’t / Can’t

A person who doesn't is no different /better than a person who can't. If you don't read you might as Think ! caveat generic cialis milled … [Read more...]

291 Reverse

Careful, you might be trapped by this. And not know it. Everything, when pushed to its limit automatically 'reverses'. People A cautious … [Read more...]

297 Circles & Spirals

You might think you are going around in circles. Which proves you're in a spiral. If you really were in a circle you would not … [Read more...]

300 Mind & Memory

My Hamburgers Doodle (# 270) got lots of comment yet is really just basic communications. So here's a basic on Mind & … [Read more...]

301 How to Stop

This formula applies to many, many things. To completely stop (...smoking, biting your nails, snacking, etc.) without side … [Read more...]

302 Party Time

How hard we work planning a Party! And really pay attention to every detail. Almost cold and calculated. Yet we have fun … [Read more...]

303 Brutus

Did you ever have an imaginary dog your parents said would keep you safe. And it would either lie on your bed or under it. It /you … [Read more...]

306 Parent-ing

Parents in China are all extremely well respected. And obeyed. After all, they know best. Years and years of experience, … [Read more...]

308 Red

You are being completely ignored in the very things that are important to you. And I can prove it! Imagine a … [Read more...]

(English) 312 Six Years

Leider ist der Eintrag nur auf English und Français verfügbar. … [Read more...]

318 Thoughtful Ransoms

You can take a newspaper, cut out certain words and make a Ransom demand. The newspaper does not say this. The words are taken out of … [Read more...]

322 Prayer

Prayer usually means negotiating /trading something God ‘wants’ that you would not otherwise give Him, for something you want He would not … [Read more...]

329 Seriously

Lower your heart rate, dilate your arteries, stimulate your appetite and burn up calories, ...without exercise! When you laugh … [Read more...]

330 Barriers vs Filters

I wash my hands before eating = Filter I must wash my hands before eating = Barrier When camping you would get very hungry! No … [Read more...]

336 Lost & Found

If you misplace a physical object, (ie: Car keys, glasses, wallet, etc.) the best way to find it is to repeat the name of the object you are … [Read more...]

337 Sell /Buy

He really, really wanted to buy the Newspaper Empire. But he was crafty! So he offered several Hundreds of Millions less than it was … [Read more...]

338 Me First

If I put myself down before you do, you won't /can't put me down. I point out my flaws before you do, so I am 'safe'. I deride myself … [Read more...]

339 Three Voices

Here is a technique I find very useful for me. I created three 'voices' in my head: Voice 1 always tries to agree with me Voice 2 … [Read more...]

340 Pushups & Sit-ups

Physical Pushups & Sit-ups 'prepare' you for sports /physical activity. Mental Pushups & Sit-ups prepare you for Situations. … [Read more...]

344 3 Weeks

At 16 I was invited to a corn roast. I hated corn. But the girl who invited me was wonderful. So I ate a little bit of corn each … [Read more...]

346 Crazy / Different

We all have something, someone or a situation we'd like to see changed. Crazy = when you repeat the same things over and over, … [Read more...]

348 Volume Control

Doing something you don't want to do? Can't stop? Then don't stop. Stop trying the on/off 'switch', it obviously doesn't … [Read more...]

356 Sequence

When things are in sequence, you don’t have to be. Looking up Zarbosky by starting at the letter ‘A’ is a total waste of time. On the … [Read more...]

357 Recipes

Do you always use the same 'recipe' no matter what you do? The fact this particular recipe works well in one situation does not make it work … [Read more...]

358 Emotional Muscles

This oneMy is... Reccommend "shop" They much doxycycline for sale no prescription softer-than-usual like the clopidogrel 65mg adding … [Read more...]

360 Category

Which movie to see? Which book to read next? These give variety. However they are simply variations of the same decision you made … [Read more...]

361 Till, Plant

We tend to teach /learn too quickly. We try to Plant the seed without first Tilling the soil. We fault ourselves for not … [Read more...]

369 Sunset

Many laws still in force today were written over 100 years ago. (Automobiles must pull over if meeting a horse and cart on a road, etc.) … [Read more...]

372 Hard Work

Hard Work doesn't, well ... work! Ok, so? If Hard Work 'works' then you face a future with more of it. And you don't … [Read more...]

374 100 Years

Subtract your age from 100 years. (play the game!) That's how long you have left to live. The rate of medical discovery / improvements … [Read more...]

376 Nice People

1. You are a nice person. 2. You tend to respond to the mood & subject of the person at hand. 3. So do they. OK, so? Here you … [Read more...]

377 Unit vs Range

We don't decide in Ranges. We decide in Units. Our decision is made based on what Unit it's in. No matter where in the Range the … [Read more...]

378 Facts?

Facts are NOT permanent. Medical: They themselves say their Facts become 50% 'wrong' in 10 - 20 yrs. Almost everything … [Read more...]

380 No Change

How to Change, Without Changing: 1. Worry about an Unsolvable-by-you situation. 2. Change your mind to stop worrying … [Read more...]

384 Sometimes

This is the magic word /concept to cause barriers to become filters. Is killing never good / always bad? The real life … [Read more...]

392 Remember Group B

Group A actually shot baskets. They physically stood there and practiced shooting Basketballs. Group B also stood there but they … [Read more...]

394 Penguins

A Penguin is a stupid thing. I was in Antarctica looking at Penguins walking all in-a-row. Once, the first one tried to jump over a fairly … [Read more...]

399 Compensations

Regular Nicotine intake (ie: cigarettes) automatically causes your body to create 'anti-nicotine' to Compensate. Stop Nicotine input … [Read more...]

400 Tick Tock

They put 12 large Grandfather clocks in a room. Eleven were started at exactly the same time. Tick. One was started (Tick) when the others … [Read more...]

410 Just Imagine

Your mind uses two inputs. One - your senses - is your 'outer' input: Your eyes are the cameras. Your ears the microphones, etc. All … [Read more...]

428 Cycles vs Always

This one is a bit obvious but needs reminding every now and then.First, a Cycle:This is a series of repetitive events similar to: night, … [Read more...]

437 Push-ups, Right Now

You cannot win (or lose!) a race simply by doing Push-ups.Therefore you relax while doing them. (Stress is, well, ...stressful!) Ok, … [Read more...]

440 Reverse Sense

Would you say to a three year old: Please play with the stove. And while you are at it, stick your fingers in the electric socket. … [Read more...]

446 That’s Life!

Face it, you are living a good life.Yet was not taught to you that way. It was not meant to be this good, was it! When you compare what … [Read more...]

447 Imagine Fear

The solution to fear is to Imagine it.Why? Because your mind cannot tell the difference from outer input: your five senses;and inner input: … [Read more...]

450 Use it or Lose it

* Your brain has over 200 billion neurons.Side by side that’s 60,000 miles (95,000km)* It also has over 500 Trillion synapses with125 … [Read more...]