To use another problem: someone who gets into debt and borrows more money (the technique) to pay off the debts will end up with the same problem until they realize that they can solve the problem by increasing their earnings (isn’t this just another technique?) Or someone who has been married three times thinks that by changing partners his/her relationships will improve but it’s only when they change their own behavior that this happens?
Is the reference to using a technique another way of saying that we can look outside of ourselves for a solution to the problem but it’s only when we realize that the solution comes from inside that it really works? And then its about responsibility and ownership rather than technique isn’t it?
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To use another problem: someone who gets into debt and borrows more money (the technique) to pay off the debts will end up with the same problem until they realize that they can solve the problem by increasing their earnings (isn’t this just another technique?) Or someone who has been married three times thinks that by changing partners his/her relationships will improve but it’s only when they change their own behavior that this happens?
Is the reference to using a technique another way of saying that we can look outside of ourselves for a solution to the problem but it’s only when we realize that the solution comes from inside that it really works? And then its about responsibility and ownership rather than technique isn’t it?
Ann x