Desaster

7 Desaster

Ein Desaster ist kein Desaster, BIS Du Dich für Deine ANTWORT auf das Ereignis entscheidest. Auf eine Mauer zu zu rasen ist KEIN … [Read more...]

75 Das Gleiche

Sie schlug mich. Dann schrie sie mich an. Dann stampfte sie mit den Füßen und versuchte, auf meine zu treten. Was ist zu tun? Zuallererst … [Read more...]

98 Das dritte Mal

Du solltest Dich entspannen. Der Versuch, etwas beim ersten Mal auf die Reihe zu bekommen, ist ein sicherer Weg ins Desaster. Woher weißt Du … [Read more...]

106 Plan B

Man ist nie mit Plan A erfolgreich. Niemals. Die, die Erfolg haben, haben immer einen Plan B. Nichts, was Du je getan … [Read more...]

145 KEIN Feedback

Merkst du, wie schnell deine Augen über den leeren Raum zwischen Titel und dieser Zeile geglitten sind? Jetzt hast du es schon … [Read more...]

149 Das Ende

Wir können mit dem Windel-wechseln ganz gut umgehen, da wir wissen, es geht vorbei. Wir wissen auch, der Geschäftsaufbau dauert eine … [Read more...]

154 Probleme und Vorfälle

Unlängst haben wir unser Lagerhaus in einen brandneuen Start-up „Alles-aus –einer-Hand“ Service geändert. Es gab eine Menge Probleme, um … [Read more...]

165 Ursache und Auswirkung

Stell dir das vor: Du bist in einem teuren Auto, das direkt auf die Klippen zusteuert. Deine ganze Familie ist bei dir. Du hast unbezahlbare … [Read more...]

211 Real Decisions

They asked a bunch of people to decide whether to do something or not. Then divided them into two groups: Those who said "YES do … [Read more...]

(English) 252 Threat

A threat is perceived when two unrelated subjects are presented at-the-same-time. . Eat all your vegetables or... I will spank you /you … [Read more...]

253 Just-in-Case

Survival depends on being totally ready for what ‘might’ happen. Specially, if it’s an animal who might attack at any … [Read more...]

255 Prepare, Defend

To properly defend yourself, you prepare for all contingencies. You do all you possibly can, ahead of time. . And then one of two … [Read more...]

259 Don’t Stop

You don't know where to go or what to do next. So you stop and try to figure it out. Yet from where you are now you can't … [Read more...]

269 Circle

This one needs a lot of help to execute. Look at the related Doodles. ---------------------------------------------- A picture is worth a … [Read more...]

273 Propaganda

Propaganda: A 'description' of an ongoing process as if that very description was the final result. This is what manipulates … [Read more...]

275 Hitler in New York

Hitler walks down the street in New York City and says "Follow me!" A few people do. Some yell obscenities at him. Lots take his … [Read more...]

277 Water on Floor

Wow! What happened here?Well, as you can see, I have water all over the floor of my recreation room. Can you help me clean it up?Sure.And he … [Read more...]

297 Circles & Spirals

You might think you are going around in circles. Which proves you're in a spiral. If you really were in a circle you would not … [Read more...]

314 Almost

I almost got a ticket the other day. I almost missed my stop /exit. A car almost ran me down. I was walking … [Read more...]

320 Description vs Judgement

There is a difference between Description and Judgment. With Description you say almost anything you want and mean absolutely nothing by it. … [Read more...]

327 Rejection

A rejection becomes relevant only when your action /non-action makes it so. If everyone agreed with the rejections of so-called experts, how … [Read more...]

334 Water in Car

I came home to see my (young!) sons washing my wife's car. With the windows down. Yep, LOTS of water in the … [Read more...]

341 Possible vs Probable

Almost everything is Possible Very, very, very few things are Probable. Ok, so? Well, before you: worry, fear, … [Read more...]

346 Crazy / Different

We all have something, someone or a situation we'd like to see changed. Crazy = when you repeat the same things over and over, … [Read more...]

347 Boston!

A really upsetting event, to say the least! Yet, with complete respect, you 'need' to see this from another point of … [Read more...]

352 Expectations (Part 2)

People just out of a bad relationship look carefully at each new date for signs of what happened with them. That makes no one Of xtreme a … [Read more...]

353 Oil, Grease, etc.

We all understand the idea of bribery. It helps smooth the way, Grease the wheels, Oil the machinery, etc. Ok so? Well, … [Read more...]

358 Emotional Muscles

This oneMy is... Reccommend "shop" They much doxycycline for sale no prescription softer-than-usual like the clopidogrel 65mg adding … [Read more...]

379 No Regrets

Ever do anything you then regretted? So, why did you do it? Because you did not know you would regret it. Because you did not have … [Read more...]

386 Guilt Cycle(s)

Guilt: Going against your own idea of what is 'correct'. (see # 53) We usually 'punish' ourselves to relieve the burden of this … [Read more...]

394 Penguins

A Penguin is a stupid thing. I was in Antarctica looking at Penguins walking all in-a-row. Once, the first one tried to jump over a fairly … [Read more...]

402 Sloppy

Steve needed $550. by 11am. And he'd pay me back in three days. He knew precisely how much he needed, when and for exactly how … [Read more...]

409 Two Points

You cannot draw a line using only one point as reference. You need at least two points. OK, so? Well, you also need two … [Read more...]

418 A Hundred Million

By now you likely know that Robin Williams committed suicide. Not died. Committed suicide. OK, so? Well over 100,000,000 people … [Read more...]

422 It’s My Fault

No it isn't.It never is. Unless you refuse to accept that others also have their own free will.To choose, to decide, to act. If … [Read more...]

424 Percentages

This one is simple.Yes = 100%No = 0% NOTHING is ever 100% or 0%You would even kill someone (typically a no = 100%)if you knew you would … [Read more...]

425 Re-Frame It

Re-Frame whatever you wish to change, improve or neutralize.Would you leave a steady income with a reliable future, to take a chance and … [Read more...]

428 Cycles vs Always

This one is a bit obvious but needs reminding every now and then.First, a Cycle:This is a series of repetitive events similar to: night, … [Read more...]

434 Advice

Give me a really good haircut this time.Sure, why? What's happening?I'm going to Rome to meet the pope.How are you going?By boat.Hmmm, the … [Read more...]

436 Golf

Playing Golf is a lot like celebrating a New Year. If I recall my past errors and mis-judgements...I improve myself for the next … [Read more...]

447 Imagine Fear

The solution to fear is to Imagine it.Why? Because your mind cannot tell the difference from outer input: your five senses;and inner input: … [Read more...]