Guilt: Going against your own idea of what is ‘correct’. (see # 53) We usually ‘punish’ ourselves to relieve the burden of this guilt. Once punished we no longer feel that initial guilt. OK, so? You no longer feel guilty for the initial action. Now look at your next action, the one that de-guilted … Read more
This is the magic word /concept to cause barriers to become filters. Is killing never good / always bad? The real life answer is … Sometimes. Killing is never good: A terrorist in a crowd, wired with a bomb that can kill many, many people. He must be killed to prevent that from happening. Do … Read more
Complete the following sentences: 1. I’m afraid that if I had money, I’d _________________ (Play the Game…) 2. Money causes ________________________________ ( & get the results.) 3. I think money _________________________________ (Why not … too hard?) 4. If I weren’t so cheap, I’d ________________________ (Just do it!) 5. Being broke tells me ____________________________ Those … Read more
If I put myself down before you do, you won’t /can’t put me down. I point out my flaws before you do, so I am ‘safe’. I deride myself first, just in case you might. Listing my Boo Boos is survival for me. Do you like people who always do this? Isn’t it somewhat … Read more
Yes, of course I lie. So do you. In fact, I bet everyone lies in every country. “Am I fat?” “Am I ugly?” “Are we almost there?” “Will it hurt?” These are easy answers, …when you lie. What about ‘fat & ugly’ in a business sense. Now you have to compare … Read more
So arbeitet Dein Gehirn: Du vergleichst nicht dieses o mit diesem O um festzustellen, das eines von beiden größer ist! Du nimmst alle o‘s, die Du je gesehen hast, auf, legst sie sozusagen übereinander und versuchst zu einem zusammengefassten Ideal zu gelangen. Sicherlich sind die meisten o‘s, die Du gesehen hast, ähnlich groß, da Du … Read more