Hesitation
395 Fake it
The full statement is “Fake it, till you make it.” And it works! Because you just do not believe enough in yourself. So you need deception to your current belief but not deception to the real functioning of the self. Also, Fake it includes eliminating fears. Acting ‘as if’ oft times shows you … Read more
379 No Regrets
Ever do anything you then regretted? So, why did you do it? Because you did not know you would regret it. Because you did not have the experience. So you could not know you would then regret it. Which means you learned something. How does one learn anything? By doing. Then, the odd time … Read more
367 Commitment
Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness. Concerning all acts of initiative and creation, there is one elementary truth, the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: * That the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. * All sorts of things occur to help that would never … Read more
352 Expectations (Part 2)
People just out of a bad relationship look carefully at each new date for signs of what happened with them. That makes no one comfortable. It feels like just one wrong word would end everything. OMG here I go again! Realize this, lower your expectations and let things develop. Oh, you’ll still date some … Read more
341 Possible vs Probable
Almost everything is Possible Very, very, very few things are Probable. Ok, so? Well, before you: worry, fear, think-you-hit-the-jackpot, etc. ask yourself First: Is this a Possible or a Probable. If it’s a Possible you are almost surely wasting you time because… Almost everything is Possible. Of course if it’s Probable… prepare … Read more