Ever do anything you then regretted? So, why did you do it? Because you did not know you would regret it. Because you did not have the experience. So you could not know you would then regret it. Which means you learned something. How does one learn anything? By doing. Then, the odd time … Read more
Your subconscious mind automatically looks at many solutions to find the correct one for a particular problem. OK, so? A person with one foot in a bear trap discards all solutions that don’t get them out of that trap. They mark those solutions as no good, non-effective, useless, etc. Once out they think they have … Read more
Con (as in Pro & Con) means ‘against’ Fusion means to join, become part of. So to be in Confusion means to not be able to join the new part with the old. The ‘old’ is everything you have ever seen /heard /done. It has formed a bunch of conclusions. When the new input … Read more
Physical Pushups & Sit-ups ‘prepare’ you for sports /physical activity. Mental Pushups & Sit-ups prepare you for Situations. Mental = Solving problem’s as if they were yours. A friend and I would always try to ‘improve’ the restaurant while we waited in line. (Hmmm, maybe if they cleared the tables faster, or presented the … Read more
Yes, I know you know people aren’t perfect. Well, except when they criticize you. Then they magically become Perfect. Otherwise you would not forget that they may currently be in a bad mood. Or afraid they may be next to be criticized. Or just had a fight at home. Or… Well you get the idea. … Read more
Prayer usually means negotiating /trading something God ‘wants’ that you would not otherwise give Him, for something you want He would not otherwise give you. Is God someone who ‘needs’? Because, if you need something, you obviously lack it in you. And have a desire to get it. And a willingness to negotiate. “I promise to adore you every week for … Read more