A child observes their parents are warm and loving, after an argument. And learns to create an argument, …to get love and warmth! To supposedly solve the problem, simply continues the problem. Why talk to self? I’m lonely & it helps. Talk to self even more should make you even less lonely. Except … Read more
1. You are a nice person. 2. You tend to respond to the mood & subject of the person at hand. 3. So do they. OK, so? Here you are, thinking a person is one way, so you act that way and that person responds to your mood & subject. So you create that which … Read more
Is that guy ever an idiot! How does one find good help? I wonder why they don’t fire him /her. Ignore your first 20 years which are mostly for your own growth. Age 21 on really starts your years of experience. Ok, so? Well if you’re 45 and hire someone who’s 25, you’re … Read more
Do you always use the same ‘recipe’ no matter what you do? The fact this particular recipe works well in one situation does not make it work well in all of them. ie: Laughing is ‘always’ OK, … except at a funeral. It also makes you think you have only those resources involved in that … Read more
All too often I forget people have their own ideas, their own life, their own … everything. That’s when Me Messages come into play, If you don’t like what people say to you then rather than attack or keep silent, try a Me Message: “I feel bad /hurt about what you are saying … Read more
Prayer usually means negotiating /trading something God ‘wants’ that you would not otherwise give Him, for something you want He would not otherwise give you. Is God someone who ‘needs’? Because, if you need something, you obviously lack it in you. And have a desire to get it. And a willingness to negotiate. “I promise to adore you every week for … Read more