A threat is perceived when two unrelated subjects are presented at-the-same-time.
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Eat all your vegetables or… I will spank you /you can’t go out to play = Threat
Eat all your vegetables or… you may not be as healthy as you could be. No Threat.
Also, to prevent the perception of threat, present Options
The less options I believe I have, the more threatened I feel.
Sooo, when you next feel threatened, look for options.
“Well, that’s the point. There are no options. That’s why I feel threatened.”
Not so, actually.
It’s just that you do not see the options that are there, if you look.
And by not looking you continue to not see them.
Presume there are Options and look for them.
Then, with a lowered threat level, solutions flow.
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These are Related:
# 35 One + One = Two! – 40 So What! – 42 Leadership – 46 Always – 66 Opposites
165 Cause & Effects – 181 Problem Solving # 2 – 189 Twin – 194 F.E.A.R. – 231 Statement
A threat is perceived when two unrelated subjects are presented at-the-same-time.
.
Eat all your vegetables or… I will spank you /you can’t go out to play = Threat
Eat all your vegetables or… you may not be as healthy as you could be. No Threat.
Also, to prevent the perception of threat, present Options
The less options I believe I have, the more threatened I feel.
Sooo, when you next feel threatened, look for options.
“Well, that’s the point. There are no options. That’s why I feel threatened.”
Not so, actually.
It’s just that you do not see the options that are there, if you look.
And by not looking you continue to not see them.
Presume there are Options and look for them.
Then, with a lowered threat level, solutions flow.
———————–
These are Related:
# 35 One + One = Two! – 40 So What! – 42 Leadership – 46 Always – 66 Opposites
165 Cause & Effects – 181 Problem Solving # 2 – 189 Twin – 194 F.E.A.R. – 231 StatementUne menace est perçue lorsque deux sujets sans lien se présentent en même temps.
Mange tous tes légumes sinon je vais te frapper et tu ne pourras pas aller jouer dehors = menace.
Mange tous tes légumes sinon… tu ne seras peut-être pas autant en santé que tu pourrais l’être. Pas de menaces.
Aussi, pour prévenir la perception de menaces, présentez des options.
Moins je crois avoir d’options, plus je me sens menacé.
Alors, la prochaine fois que vous vous sentez menacé, cherchez des options.
“C’est ça l’idée. Il n’y a pas d’options. C’est la raison pour laquelle je me sens menacé.”
Pas du tout, en réalité.
C’est seulement que vous ne voyez pas les options qui sont là, si vous regardez.
Et en ne regardant pas vous continuez à ne pas les voir.
Présumez qu’il y a des options et cherchez-les.
Ainsi, avec un niveau de menace amoindri, les solutions coulent.
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Ceux-ci ont des liens:
# 35 Un + Un = deux! – 40 Et Alors! – 42 Leadership – 46 Toujours – 66 Opposé
165 Cause & Effets – 181 Solution de problèmes #2 – 189 Jumeaux – 194 PEUR – 231 Énoncé
A threat is perceived when two unrelated subjects are presented at-the-same-time.
.
Eat all your vegetables or… I will spank you /you can’t go out to play = Threat
Eat all your vegetables or… you may not be as healthy as you could be. No Threat.
Also, to prevent the perception of threat, present Options
The less options I believe I have, the more threatened I feel.
Sooo, when you next feel threatened, look for options.
“Well, that’s the point. There are no options. That’s why I feel threatened.”
Not so, actually.
It’s just that you do not see the options that are there, if you look.
And by not looking you continue to not see them.
Presume there are Options and look for them.
Then, with a lowered threat level, solutions flow.
———————–
These are Related:
# 35 One + One = Two! – 40 So What! – 42 Leadership – 46 Always – 66 Opposites
165 Cause & Effects – 181 Problem Solving # 2 – 189 Twin – 194 F.E.A.R. – 231 Statement