If you give credit when people do something that merits credit, they stay with you.
Not think they are better and leave you.
You’re the only one who gives them credit – and they know that –
they’d find themselves cut off from credit if they went anywhere else.
Because most people don’t give others credit.
They keep it for themselves.
We all compute what-you-say as compared to what-others-say to us that day, the days before, and the days after.
And we note that we have not changed all that much when we are with you,
yet we seem to be getting a lot more “benefit of the doubt” and a lot more ‘good feeling’ when we are with you. (Also therefore, no swelled head.)
So we can easily see that this is the way you are and not necessarily the way we are.
IE: I did not change all that much when I am with you but my credit level did rise.
So I’m sticking with you.
Works with: employees, husbands, wives, children, friends, associates, neighbors, etc.
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# 1 Ferris Wheel – 11 Feedback – 115 Give, Get – 117 Gold Mine – 121 Carrot & Stick – 213 RocketsIf you give credit when people do something that merits credit, they stay with you.
Not think they are better and leave you.
You’re the only one who gives them credit – and they know that –
they’d find themselves cut off from credit if they went anywhere else.
Because most people don’t give others credit.
They keep it for themselves.
We all compute what-you-say as compared to what-others-say to us that day, the days before, and the days after.
And we note that we have not changed all that much when we are with you,
yet we seem to be getting a lot more “benefit of the doubt” and a lot more ‘good feeling’ when we are with you. (Also therefore, no swelled head.)
So we can easily see that this is the way you are and not necessarily the way we are.
IE: I did not change all that much when I am with you but my credit level did rise.
So I’m sticking with you.
Works with: employees, husbands, wives, children, friends, associates, neighbors, etc.
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# 1 Ferris Wheel – 11 Feedback – 115 Give, Get – 117 Gold Mine – 121 Carrot & Stick – 213 RocketsSi vous donnez de la reconnaissance aux gens lorsqu’ils font quelque chose qui le mérite, ils restent avec vous.
Ils ne vous quittent pas en pensant pas qu’ils sont meilleurs.
Vous êtes le seul qui leur donnez de la reconnaissance – et ils le savent –
ils se retrouveraient coupés de la reconnaissance s’ils allaient ailleurs.
Parce que la plupart des gens ne donnent pas de reconnaissance aux autres.
Ils gardent ça pour eux.
Nous comparons tout ce-que-tu-dis avec ce-que-les-autres disent cette journée-là, la journée d’avant, les jours d’avant et les jours suivants.
Et nous remarquons que nous n’avons pas changé tant que cela quand nous sommes avec toi.
Cependant, nous semblons avoir plus de ”bénéfice du doute” et beaucoup plus de ‘bons feelings’ quand nous sommes avec vous. (Donc, aussi, pas de tête enflée).
Alors nous pouvons facilement voir que c’est comme ça que vous êtes et pas nécessairement la façon dont nous sommes.
IE: Je n’ai pas tant changé quand je suis avec vous mais, mon niveau de reconnaissance a augmenté.
Donc je reste avec vous.
Cela fonctionne avec: les employés, les conjoints, les enfants, les amis, les associés, les voisins, etc.
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# 1 La grande roue – 11 Feedback – 115 Donner, recevoir – 117 Mine d’or – 121 Carotte & bâton
213 FuséesIf you give credit when people do something that merits credit, they stay with you.
Not think they are better and leave you.
You’re the only one who gives them credit – and they know that –
they’d find themselves cut off from credit if they went anywhere else.
Because most people don’t give others credit.
They keep it for themselves.
We all compute what-you-say as compared to what-others-say to us that day, the days before, and the days after.
And we note that we have not changed all that much when we are with you,
yet we seem to be getting a lot more “benefit of the doubt” and a lot more ‘good feeling’ when we are with you. (Also therefore, no swelled head.)
So we can easily see that this is the way you are and not necessarily the way we are.
IE: I did not change all that much when I am with you but my credit level did rise.
So I’m sticking with you.
Works with: employees, husbands, wives, children, friends, associates, neighbors, etc.
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# 1 Ferris Wheel – 11 Feedback – 115 Give, Get – 117 Gold Mine – 121 Carrot & Stick – 213 Rockets
good idea im gonna try it