There are two types of Security.
Internal and External.
Internal Security exists when you believe you can ‘create’ something.
External Security comes when you take comfort from things around you and ‘appearances’.
(ie: Clothes, furniture, flashy car, etc.)
I am Internally Secure and married an Externally Secure person.
We have gone through ‘Security’ situations many times (!)
Every time, I review my ability to produce and take comfort from that…
and tend to forget her need for External Security.
Then we go to a nice restaurant and she relaxes.
Or looks at the things she has cumulated over the years and relaxes.
Both of us need security.
Be it External or Internal.
Others are not necessarily like you, so make allowance for their needs.
Things really ease up when you do.
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# 21 Interpretation – 42 Leadership – 162 Consider the Source There are two types of Security.
Internal and External.
Internal Security exists when you believe you can ‘create’ something.
External Security comes when you take comfort from things around you and ‘appearances’.
(ie: Clothes, furniture, flashy car, etc.)
I am Internally Secure and married an Externally Secure person.
We have gone through ‘Security’ situations many times (!)
Every time, I review my ability to produce and take comfort from that…
and tend to forget her need for External Security.
Then we go to a nice restaurant and she relaxes.
Or looks at the things she has cumulated over the years and relaxes.
Both of us need security.
Be it External or Internal.
Others are not necessarily like you, so make allowance for their needs.
Things really ease up when you do.
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To reinforce this read any two below:
# 21 Interpretation – 42 Leadership – 162 Consider the Source Il y a deux types de Sécurité.
Interne et externe.
La Sécurité Interne existe lorsque vous croyez que vous pouvez ‘créer’ quelque chose.
La Sécurité Externe arrive quand vous trouvez du réconfort des choses autour de vous et de vos ‘apparences’.
(ie: vêtements, ameublement, voiture de luxe, etc.)
Je suis intérieurement en sécurité et marié à une personne en sécurité extérieurement.
Nous avons traversé des situations de sécurité plusieurs fois (!)
A chaque fois, je revise mon habileté à produire et à trouver du réconfort de ça…
et j’ai tendance à oublier son besoin pour la Sécurité Externe.
Ensuite nous allons dans un beau restaurant et elle relaxe.
Ou elle regarde les choses qu’elle a accumulé au fil des ans et elle relaxe.
Nous avons tous les deux besoin de sécurité.
Quelle soit Externe ou Interne.
Les autres ne sont pas nécessairement comme vous, alors tenez compte de leurs besoins.
Les choses deviennent plus faciles quand vous le faites.
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# 21 Interprétation – 42 Leadership – 162 Considérer la SourceThere are two types of Security.
Internal and External.
Internal Security exists when you believe you can ‘create’ something.
External Security comes when you take comfort from things around you and ‘appearances’.
(ie: Clothes, furniture, flashy car, etc.)
I am Internally Secure and married an Externally Secure person.
We have gone through ‘Security’ situations many times (!)
Every time, I review my ability to produce and take comfort from that…
and tend to forget her need for External Security.
Then we go to a nice restaurant and she relaxes.
Or looks at the things she has cumulated over the years and relaxes.
Both of us need security.
Be it External or Internal.
Others are not necessarily like you, so make allowance for their needs.
Things really ease up when you do.
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To reinforce this read any two below:
# 21 Interpretation – 42 Leadership – 162 Consider the Source