Or learn.
Those are the two things that can happen when something unwanted occurs.
It’s not my fault because…
means I can do nothing to change this from happening again.
I think this is where it went wrong…
means I’ll remember that, next time.
It seems less bad for me when I blame someone/something else.
That way I justify myself.
And almost convince myself that I am right.
But still don’t get it done.
Those who truly understand are impressed when you explore and
explain what went wrong, even if it was you who somehow caused it.
Now they are sure you will not repeat that again.
So to become more effective, stop justifying
and learn.
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To reinforce this read any two below:
# 4 Common Courtesy – 11 Feedback – 21 Interpretation – 83 Being Wrong
98 Third Time – 102 Response-ability – 127 Not-Me – 146 Always Right
159 Make a Mistake Or learn.
Those are the two things that can happen when something unwanted occurs.
It’s not my fault because…
means I can do nothing to change this from happening again.
I think this is where it went wrong…
means I’ll remember that, next time.
It seems less bad for me when I blame someone/something else.
That way I justify myself.
And almost convince myself that I am right.
But still don’t get it done.
Those who truly understand are impressed when you explore and
explain what went wrong, even if it was you who somehow caused it.
Now they are sure you will not repeat that again.
So to become more effective, stop justifying
and learn.
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To reinforce this read any two below:
# 4 Common Courtesy – 11 Feedback – 21 Interpretation – 83 Being Wrong
98 Third Time – 102 Response-ability – 127 Not-Me – 146 Always Right
159 Make a Mistake Ou apprendre. Ce sont deux choses qui peuvent se produire lorsque quelque chose de non désirable se manifeste.
Ce n’est pas de ma faute parce que…
signifie qu’il n’y a rien que je puisse faire pour éviter que ça arrive encore.
Je pense que ç’est là que ça a mal tourné…
signifie je vais m’en souvenir, la prochaine fois.
Ça me semble moins pire lorsque je blâme quelqu’un ou quelque chose d’autre.
De cette manière je me justifie.
Et j’arrive presque à me convaincre que j’ai raison.
Mais je n’arrive pas à le faire.
Ceux qui comprennent vraiment sont impressionnés quand vous explorez et expliquez ce qui a mal tourné, même si c’est vous qui, en quelque sorte, a causé cela.
Maintenant ils sont certains que vous ne répéterez pas cela une autre fois.
Alors pour devenir plus efficace, arrêtez de vous justifier
et apprenez.
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Voici des liens:
# 4 Courtoisie mutuelle – 11 Feedback – 21 Interprétation – 83 Être en tort
98 Troisième fois – 102 Réponse-habileté – 127 Pas-moi – 146 Toujours raisons
159 Faire une erreurOr learn.
Those are the two things that can happen when something unwanted occurs.
It’s not my fault because…
means I can do nothing to change this from happening again.
I think this is where it went wrong…
means I’ll remember that, next time.
It seems less bad for me when I blame someone/something else.
That way I justify myself.
And almost convince myself that I am right.
But still don’t get it done.
Those who truly understand are impressed when you explore and
explain what went wrong, even if it was you who somehow caused it.
Now they are sure you will not repeat that again.
So to become more effective, stop justifying
and learn.
————————–
To reinforce this read any two below:
# 4 Common Courtesy – 11 Feedback – 21 Interpretation – 83 Being Wrong
98 Third Time – 102 Response-ability – 127 Not-Me – 146 Always Right
159 Make a Mistake