admin Not being in control of something does not mean it’s out of control. It simply means you are not the one doing the controlling. Take the Internet. No one ‘controls’ it. Yet it is not out of control. In fact it’s not anything. Like a multi-billion page book, to be used anyway you choose. Your … Read more
Saying “Stop that!” won’t get a child to stop doing something. Because, then the child has nothing. And no one wants nothing. So, what you say is “Oooh, loook at this!!” And the child automatically stops whatever they are doing and looks. At something. Do you have something/someone ‘useless’ around you because it’s better-than-nothing? Then … Read more
People want Luxury in their lives, but not waste. And there’s your problem. “13 Bathrooms?? What a waste!” “40 acres! What do you do with all that land? If you aren’t farming, it’s a waste of good land.” YET: How many televisions do you have in your house? How many chairs? … Read more
Lies are basically wishes-in-disguise. The fish was THIS big. I wish the fish was this big. I am a rich person. I wish I was a rich person. So when someone lies, you see what their wish is. This helps you interact with them a bit better. Same goes with yourself. You KNOW which things … Read more
Count the number of ‘F’s in this simple sentence: Finished files are the result of years of scientific research. (Play the game = get the results!) Most people are human (!) They substitute ‘knowing’ for seeing. When you don’t get the results you wish, take another look, this time with your awareness rather than … Read more
This one needs a lot of help to execute. Look at the related Doodles. They’ll help get you out of Stage 3 ————————————————————- The owner of a 50 year old, multi-billion dollar company described to me the Stages his company goes through. 1 Initial Stage Create and Build 2 Automatic Stage Manage 3 Choice Stage … Read more