Danny was my secretary. He would type my letters (1970’s!). And he’d make a mistake on almost every one. “Danny, do you check these letters for errors?” Well, I can always correct them. “That’s not the point. Correct them before you give them to me.” OK, why say this? Many people un-consciously believe that … Read more
You cannot build a hill that has only one direction. You may want it to go only ‘up’. Fine, but it does go both ways. To take away uphill / you automatically take away downhill __ You have no option. None. OK, so? Well, why do you try to build an Impossible Self-Image for yourself? … Read more
We go through life with one of two basic attitudes Everything is allowed, unless specifically prohibited /forbidden or Everything is forbidden, unless specifically allowed. Let’s go to this restaurant tonight. “We didn’t make a reservation.” We need a new form. Why not just make one? We probably shouldn’t. OR I made a … Read more
We think re-viewing a situation over and over somehow helps. We believe we will somehow come up with something we have not thought about. Next time you find yourself reviewing a situation, ask yourself what exactly would change if you simply stopped reviewing it. After you write an exam – you keep reviewing it … Read more
Taxi drivers in New York City are a realistic bunch. To drive in one of the busiest cities in the world, you do what works. And what doesn’t waste time. Or unnecessary motion. They signal their intent to change lanes and then proceed to do so. Yes there are cars in the other lane, … Read more
Do you mind digging ditches? “Not if the pay is good.” Alright, then dig this ditch. It should take a few days. “OK, the ditch is dug.” Do you want more work? “Sure.” Then fill up the ditch. “Are you sure?” Yes. “OK, it’s your money.” (A few days later) “OK, that’s done, … Read more