One of my largest changes happened when I decided that Life is somehow designed to be a series of Lessons. Others already know your lessons and are busy learning theirs. You see theirs as obvious, but they do not. Ok, so? Life is: * Meaning-less accidents * To determine if you … Read more
At 16 I was invited to a corn roast. I hated corn. But the girl who invited me was wonderful. So I ate a little bit of corn each day. And thought wonderful thoughts about her while doing so. I started to appreciate the Taste, then the Texture, then …etc. Soon I could eat an … Read more
There are no one-way streets. There can’t be. Any more than stairs that only go up. Or Uphill without Downhill. / Ok, so? We usually interpret what people say /do in just One Way. And re-enforce our conclusions, once again. Which is fine, …unless things are not working as well as you wish with … Read more
How To Get Rich: Fail 9 times in a row … out of 10 Or 99 times … out of 100 How to stay Poor: Never try. How to be Perfect: Succeed the very 1st time. All these apply to dating, relationships, business, etc. Which one of … Read more
Almost everything is Possible Very, very, very few things are Probable. Ok, so? Well, before you: worry, fear, think-you-hit-the-jackpot, etc. ask yourself First: Is this a Possible or a Probable. If it’s a Possible you are almost surely wasting you time because… Almost everything is Possible. Of course if it’s Probable… prepare … Read more
Physical Pushups & Sit-ups ‘prepare’ you for sports /physical activity. Mental Pushups & Sit-ups prepare you for Situations. Mental = Solving problem’s as if they were yours. A friend and I would always try to ‘improve’ the restaurant while we waited in line. (Hmmm, maybe if they cleared the tables faster, or presented the … Read more