285 Questions

If you seem to always get the same answers consider asking different Questions.   Think of a problem /situation you want to change. Then answer these questions as truthfully as you can:   * What is the advantage of not getting what I want?     Make up a ‘logical’ answer.   * What is … Read more

284 Out of Sight…

Out of Mind is the rest. Why not take advantage of this truism. Those things you want to achieve: Place messages, cutouts, photos, reminders ‘everywhere’ Kitchen, Bathroom, car, door(s), etc. (Until everyone else thinks you’ve overdone it, keep doing it.) Those things you want to forget: Get RID of the very same reminders. A chair, … Read more

281 Ask, Speak

Take turns rather than always be the one to Ask or Speak.   Even in an interview. Are you married? Children? How much education do you have? etc.   Goes much better if after they answer, you say: I have two children myself.   No need to elaborate. Just to speak.   Annnd, if you … Read more

280 Filters

Your mind automatically records everything. Everything! However before accessing this data your mind goes through a filter that states how to interpret this information. Happy, sad, embarrassing etc. And that’s the problem.   Many Years Ago John and Sue looked for a place to “Do it” They found an unlocked door to a warehouse. Inside … Read more