It’s just as much effort and cost: To type ‘Xxx x Xxxxx’, as to type meaningful stuff. To make a movie with one scene, one actor, saying one word over and over. To create /distribute a magazine with one photo, one sentence over and over. To send this email with nothing meaningful in it, etc. … Read more
Short things can also be seen as cold things. Long ones as warm. An abrupt ‘no’ is Short /Cold. “Well, I will think about it but I must tell you that I don’t believe I will say yes.” is a Long /Warm Both, of course, say the same thing. However we tend to like warm … Read more
“Oh, you are so very cruel saying things like that!” As she stormed away. That evening I told my wife the things she said that day. And she told her husband the things I said that day. “Ah, you know you did the right thing.” said my wife. “Well, an honest person tells you things … Read more
You create your environment. By choosing which restaurant or by staying in one you didn’t choose. Not long, and you are influenced by this environment. Either way. Same with literally every other Environment. Keeping pictures which remind you of ‘sad’ or ‘happy’ times. Planning every detail of a wedding day. Not long, and you … Read more
The mind can, and does, clear itself up. Think of something you were afraid of, when you were a child. (Spiders, snakes, the dark, etc.) Are you still afraid of it now? See, it cleared itself up as time went by. (OK, so why hasn’t everything cleared up!) Because the mind works by … Read more
We go through life with one of two basic attitudes Everything is allowed, unless specifically prohibited /forbidden or Everything is forbidden, unless specifically allowed. Let’s go to this restaurant tonight. “We didn’t make a reservation.” We need a new form. Why not just make one? We probably shouldn’t. OR I made a … Read more