We are a relationship, ever-changing.
Me and my body, ever-changing.
My and my partner, ever-changing.
Me and my parents, ever-changing.
Me and my job, ever-changing.
One of our first relationships is between our ‘self’ and the ‘world’.
Mistakes (Falling down as we learn to walk etc.) are not forgiven, but rather dismissed as nothing-to-forgive.
Learning /change is normal.
Making mistakes is NOT viewed as making mistakes but simply trial and error in our efforts to create and understand ‘cause-and-effect’.
As children, the unstated assumption is that you’re learning.
Yet, as an adult, there is no longer any allowance for change /learning.
The unstated becomes “You should know better!” etc. Glances, facial expressions of disapproval and all other silent messages adults give each other and themselves!
In this ever-changing world I have difficulty trying to repeat what was once successful. The ‘cause’ is the same but the ‘effect’ is not.
We are a relationship …ever-changing!
It’s this very silent assumption that nothing changes that causes discouragement.
Change your actions in some small, safe ‘relationship’ and see what happens.
You and food.
You and Television.
You and …
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These are related:
12 Change – 13 Changing Change – 20 The ‘Gift’ of Knowledge – 22 Attitude – 36 Prime Time
54 Self – 60 Patterns – 78 Process – 79 Truth Time – 81 Second Impressions – 82 Limitations
85 Babies – 93 Heaven & Hell – 97 Variety – 101 Relationships
Many people ask me to put my 
in one place. Here they are!
Happy New Year George.
Congrats on your site. Keep up the good work. What did the EG’s say ” there is nothing wrong with hard work providing it is not hard work” Don’t you love it.
Cheers,
Alan