He slapped her.
That’s terrible!
Well, she was hysterical.
Oh, that’s OK
He made her hysterical to look good slapping her.
That’s terrible!
The movie director thought they acted well.
Oh, that’s OK
Well, the movie is about how to degrade women.
That’s terrible!
Well …
etc.
We NEVER know the whole story unless we invest a great deal of time, energy and effort.
So what, that’s life!
True but from now on whenever you do have something that bothers you – first determine if it’s a real situation /conclusion that needs solving or simply partial information that needs no attention at all.
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These are related:
3 Cumulative Knowledge – 12 Change – 25 How Old Are You? – 30 Ever-changing Relationships
32 Red Light, Green Light – 43 Desire – 50 Limits – 60 Patterns – 62 Context – 63 Free Will
64 Natural Talents – 69 Labels – 78 Process – 79 Truth Time – 81 Second Impressions
82 Limitations – 90 Good/Bad – 93 Heaven & Hell – 98 Third Time – 100 Ransom Notes
in one place. Here they are!