229 Security

There are two types of Security.

Internal and External.

Internal Security exists when you believe you can ‘create’ something.

External Security comes when you take comfort from things around you and ‘appearances’.

(ie: Clothes, furniture, flashy car, etc.)

I am Internally Secure and married an Externally Secure person.

We have gone through ‘Security’ situations many times (!)

Every time, I review my ability to produce and take comfort from that…

and tend to forget her need for External Security.

Then we go to a nice restaurant and she relaxes.

Or looks at the things she has cumulated over the years and relaxes.

Both of us need security.

Be it External or Internal.

Others are not necessarily like you, so make allowance for their needs.

Things really ease up when you do.

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To reinforce this read any two below:

# 21 Interpretation – 42 Leadership – 162 Consider the Source