Which one do you think works best when interacting with others?
* Let Me Listen
OR
* Listen to Me (ie: Let me give you some advice. Or show off.)
If the person is under 5 years old or sick, Listen to Me works, …somewhat.
Otherwise Let Me Listen creates the ideal interactive atmosphere.
To the simplicity, do you need to Let Me Listen more?
This is hard to do because it involves … saying nothing!
Ok, so?
Truly effective, interactive communication is made up of
(50%) their Words /Tone and (50%) your Body Language.
Practice Let Me Listen by how you stand, look at the speaker, nod, etc.
Don’t be too surprised when, after a while, they ask you what you think!
Then the hardest: Give them only HALF the Listen to Me you want to give.
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