109 Understanding

We tend to divide things into two:
–     Good/Bad
–     Right/Wrong
–     Day/Night
–     Yes/No
And that’s a trap.
(Black & White doesn’t allow for rainbows!)

If one ‘end’ is Good and the other Bad, then except for the very ends themselves, there is some Good added to Bad to pull it away from total Bad. And some Bad added to Good to pull it away from total Good.
The center position is the third position, where things are neither Bad nor Good.
See what Good there is in something Bad and, strangely enough, what Bad there is in Good.

When you can easily and automatically see the third thing that it also is, not could be, mind you, but IS, then you are not as trapped by your thinking.
Seeing the third thing = Turns down the volume on your ‘programming’
Seeing the third thing = Freedom to act /choose /behave.
Seeing the third thing = understanding

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