We are a relationship, ever-changing.
Me and my body, ever-changing.
My and my partner, ever-changing.
Me and my parents, ever-changing.
Me and my job, ever-changing.
One of our first relationships is between our ‘self’ and the ‘world’.
Mistakes (Falling down as we learn to walk etc.) are not forgiven, but rather dismissed as nothing-to-forgive.
Learning /change is normal.
Making mistakes is NOT viewed as making mistakes but simply trial and error in our efforts to create and understand ‘cause-and-effect’.
As children, the unstated assumption is that you’re learning.
Yet, as an adult, there is no longer any allowance for change /learning.
The unstated becomes “You should know better!” etc. Glances, facial expressions of disapproval and all other silent messages adults give each other and themselves!
In this ever-changing world I have difficulty trying to repeat what was once successful. The ‘cause’ is the same but the ‘effect’ is not.
We are a relationship …ever-changing!
It’s this very silent assumption that nothing changes that causes discouragement.
Change your actions in some small, safe ‘relationship’ and see what happens.
You and food.
You and Television.
You and …
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You only wish reading one Doodle would do it!
It’s a subconscious cross-index of select different Doodles
to ‘side-step’ your filters, that gets you what you want.
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To reinforce this, read at least 2 below: If you Read only one
12 Change – 13 Changing Change – 20 The ‘Gift’ of Knowledge – 22 Attitude – 36 Prime Time
54 Self – 60 Patterns – 78 Process – 79 Truth Time – 81 Second Impressions – 82 Limitations
85 Babies – 93 Heaven & Hell – 97 Variety – 101 Relationships
Happy New Year George.
Congrats on your site. Keep up the good work. What did the EG’s say ” there is nothing wrong with hard work providing it is not hard work” Don’t you love it.
Cheers,
Alan