320 Description vs Judgement

There is a difference between Description and Judgment.
With Description you say almost anything you want
and mean absolutely nothing by it.
You go on living as if that did not exist.
With Judgment, when you say something about someone
you then proceed to modify your actions accordingly.

Good families scream and yell at each other.
And don’t act any different before or after.
ALL they do is scream and yell at each other.
They don’t “mean” anything by it.
There is no Judgment.

OK, so?
Well, that’s all anyone ever does. Description.

Annnd for as much as you ‘need’ a favorable Description
so do you “perform”.
Until your performance is acceptable … to them.
Then they throw you a bone /description.

May I repeat:
All people ever do is describe.
You change it into Judgement /evaluation /condemnation.
Not them.
You.

Stop it.

To reinforce this, read at least 2:

# 18 Being Triggered – 132 Taking it Personally – 182 Grey – 242 Gentleman – 266 Results