Do you always use the same ‘recipe’ no matter what you do? The fact this particular recipe works well in one situation does not make it work well in all of them. ie: Laughing is ‘always’ OK, … except at a funeral. It also makes you think you have only those resources involved in that … Read more
When things are in sequence, you don’t have to be. Looking up Zarbosky by starting at the letter ‘A’ is a total waste of time. On the other hand, if it’s not alphabetical, the very first name could easily be Zarbosky. So when things are not in sequence, you must be. So many things … Read more
Your subconscious mind automatically looks at many solutions to find the correct one for a particular problem. OK, so? A person with one foot in a bear trap discards all solutions that don’t get them out of that trap. They mark those solutions as no good, non-effective, useless, etc. Once out they think they have … Read more
We all understand the idea of bribery. It helps smooth the way, Grease the wheels, Oil the machinery, etc. Ok so? Well, there are many, many other ways to do this. A smile, A joke, A rest break, A change of subject, etc. All of these help smooth the way. If you have … Read more
People just out of a bad relationship look carefully at each new date for signs of what happened with them. That makes no one comfortable. It feels like just one wrong word would end everything. OMG here I go again! Realize this, lower your expectations and let things develop. Oh, you’ll still date some … Read more
Con (as in Pro & Con) means ‘against’ Fusion means to join, become part of. So to be in Confusion means to not be able to join the new part with the old. The ‘old’ is everything you have ever seen /heard /done. It has formed a bunch of conclusions. When the new input … Read more