I hate my job /personal partner, etc. Then change it. I can’t. I am not sure I would end up better. What if the company closes /partner leaves you, etc. Does this mean you are never, ever going to get another job /partner. Ever? Well, no. Somehow I have to get another job /partner. … Read more
Make a decision about Quality vs Quantity. Obvious: A large steak that’s medium in taste or a smaller one, excellent in taste. Not so Obvious: I stay home most evenings and recite to my children. “No, you can’t.” “Be careful.” “Better safe than sorry.” etc. Or, because of my efforts and resulting … Read more
There is a difference between Description and Judgment. With Description you say almost anything you want and mean absolutely nothing by it. You go on living as if that did not exist. With Judgment, when you say something about someone you then proceed to modify your actions accordingly. Good families scream and yell at each … Read more
A great source of concern for many is “The Future” The great unknown. It could go any-way, do any-thing. Will I be safe? The answer is easy: Look Back. So far it has always worked out, right? Oh yes it has ! Not always what you wanted, but what was right and correct … Read more
I almost got a ticket the other day. I almost missed my stop /exit. A car almost ran me down. I was walking along and it roared right by me. It was a close call. But you were on a sidewalk! Yes, but it was close. We tend to translate everyday possibilities … Read more
Yes, of course I lie. So do you. In fact, I bet everyone lies in every country. “Am I fat?” “Am I ugly?” “Are we almost there?” “Will it hurt?” These are easy answers, …when you lie. What about ‘fat & ugly’ in a business sense. Now you have to compare … Read more