Awareness
401 Silent Partner
Marriage occurs once or twice, in a lifetime. And, if you really think about it, you met him/her just like you meet everyone. Your assumption /hindsight is that you saw something in their body language. “I saw a sparkle in his /her eye.” or “There’s just something about him /her.” Boy, you sure can read … Read more
398 Dimensions
Most thinking until the 1950’s was in 2 Dimensions. Mass production of airplanes introduced us to the 3rd Dimension. Height. Until then the sayings were: * Keep your feet on the ground * No more flights of fancy, please! * There you go, flying off again * Come down from the clouds … Read more
395 Fake it
The full statement is “Fake it, till you make it.” And it works! Because you just do not believe enough in yourself. So you need deception to your current belief but not deception to the real functioning of the self. Also, Fake it includes eliminating fears. Acting ‘as if’ oft times shows you … Read more
393 Endless
A child observes their parents are warm and loving, after an argument. And learns to create an argument, …to get love and warmth! To supposedly solve the problem, simply continues the problem. Why talk to self? I’m lonely & it helps. Talk to self even more should make you even less lonely. Except … Read more
392 Remember Group B
Group A actually shot baskets. They physically stood there and practiced shooting Basketballs. Group B also stood there but they only imagined / thought / visualized / pretended to shoot baskets. Group C stood there and did nothing. Groups A & B improved almost equally (!) Group C did not improve. Ok, so? … Read more