Everyone has an Opinion. Opinions are not Facts, obviously. Yet most things we think /act on are Opinions. OK, so? When you have conflict within yourself verify: Is this a Fact or an Opinion? Then act accordingly. Why validate Opinions as if they are Facts … especially when things go wrong. With others: … Read more
If I am not flexible then I must restrict you to what I can respond to. I do this by: Finishing your sentences for you (but my way!) Deliberately mis-understanding you on certain issues. Mis hearing your words. Acting confused about obvious things. When you see others do this, realize they are simply … Read more
You might think you are going around in circles. Which proves you’re in a spiral. If you really were in a circle you would not know it. That is a circle. Doing things over and over without knowing it. The instant you realize you’re repeating things — going around and around — … Read more
Your mind automatically records everything. Everything! However before accessing this data your mind goes through a filter that states how to interpret this information. Happy, sad, embarrassing etc. And that’s the problem. Many Years Ago John and Sue looked for a place to “Do it” They found an unlocked door to a warehouse. Inside … Read more
Don’t deny you are anything. This includes: Bad /jealous /angry etc. Just realize that that’s a millionth of what your total is. You are probably also hungry, sad, worried, happy etc. If I see one black dot on the wall do I call the entire wall black. Only when I take a magnifying … Read more