288 Personality

288 Personality   How do you (or anyone) show your personality?   Your words carry /broadcast only 10% of your personality. Your Tone of Voice shows 35% And your Body Language 55%   Ok. So? Now that we are mostly communicating through emails, Twitter, Facebook and such… where is your personality showing?   Saaay, you … Read more

280 Filters

Your mind automatically records everything. Everything! However before accessing this data your mind goes through a filter that states how to interpret this information. Happy, sad, embarrassing etc. And that’s the problem.   Many Years Ago John and Sue looked for a place to “Do it” They found an unlocked door to a warehouse. Inside … Read more

272 Make a Note

This one is so simple, yet almost no one does it! When listening to someone speak, make a note of the idea /thing that causes you to think. That way you can keep on listening without missing anything. Usually you start to think about whatever was just said … at the expense of the next … Read more

271 Pedestals

The more you consider someone a Hero the higher the pedestal you place them on. The higher the pedestal, the less room they have to move. Soon your greatest hero is on the highest pedestal and cannot move at all.   A couple of friends were gathered. At one point someone was upset by one word said. … Read more

257 Unknown

You can’t fear the unknown. If it is truly unknown. . So what you do is populate the unknown with a bunch of known-and-undesirable things.   Then you choose to fear that one of the things you put there, may happen.   Here There Be Tygres Many years ago this was written in the part … Read more