Con (as in Pro & Con) means ‘against’ Fusion means to join, become part of. So to be in Confusion means to not be able to join the new part with the old. The ‘old’ is everything you have ever seen /heard /done. It has formed a bunch of conclusions. When the new input … Read more
Doing something you don’t want to do? Can’t stop? Then don’t stop. Stop trying the on/off ‘switch’, it obviously doesn’t work for you. Imagine instead you have a Volume Control. Turn down the volume. But not all the way. That would be the same as an on/off switch. Just turn the Volume … Read more
One of my largest changes happened when I decided that Life is somehow designed to be a series of Lessons. Others already know your lessons and are busy learning theirs. You see theirs as obvious, but they do not. Ok, so? Life is: * Meaning-less accidents * To determine if you … Read more
If I put myself down before you do, you won’t /can’t put me down. I point out my flaws before you do, so I am ‘safe’. I deride myself first, just in case you might. Listing my Boo Boos is survival for me. Do you like people who always do this? Isn’t it somewhat … Read more
I came home to see my (young!) sons washing my wife’s car. With the windows down. Yep, LOTS of water in the car. Situation Water in Car Reaction 1 Damages, cost, stupid, etc. Emotion Anger, annoyance, upset, mad, etc. OR Reaction 2 Wow, just like in cartoons! Emotion Open door and laugh while … Read more
These are rated the widest /broadest impact on… YOU Most of you joined this group after these were written. Take time to see what you’re missing. (Think of a current problem, then Use your intuition on which will ‘help’ you most, and, …don’t be surprised when it works! PLEASE pass it on.) * … Read more