I wash my hands before eating = Filter I must wash my hands before eating = Barrier When camping you would get very hungry! No eating at drive-ins. etc. Our Filters define us whereas our Barriers limit us. Ok, so? The other day I went to work without realizing I had not combed … Read more
Make a decision about Quality vs Quantity. Obvious: A large steak that’s medium in taste or a smaller one, excellent in taste. Not so Obvious: I stay home most evenings and recite to my children. “No, you can’t.” “Be careful.” “Better safe than sorry.” etc. Or, because of my efforts and resulting … Read more
Imagine how you were… fifteen years ago. As compared to now. (Play the game = get the results) Things sure have changed (!) Ok, so? Well, all plans you make are based on who you are now and what you’ve learned. Yet five to ten years from now when all these plans happen you … Read more
Yes, of course I lie. So do you. In fact, I bet everyone lies in every country. “Am I fat?” “Am I ugly?” “Are we almost there?” “Will it hurt?” These are easy answers, …when you lie. What about ‘fat & ugly’ in a business sense. Now you have to compare … Read more
Did you ever have an imaginary dog your parents said would keep you safe. And it would either lie on your bed or under it. It /you would fight the imaginary monsters or fear of the dark with it. My children named theirs Brutus. And, almost like magic, they were far easier to get … Read more
How hard we work planning a Party! And really pay attention to every detail. Almost cold and calculated. Yet we have fun when it’s happening. OK, sooo? Well you can actually ‘plan’ your fun /happiness too. Without throwing a Party. When you feel low /depressed etc. Simply think of three different things … Read more