When things are in sequence, you don’t have to be. Looking up Zarbosky by starting at the letter ‘A’ is a total waste of time. On the other hand, if it’s not alphabetical, the very first name could easily be Zarbosky. So when things are not in sequence, you must be. So many things … Read more
Your subconscious mind automatically looks at many solutions to find the correct one for a particular problem. OK, so? A person with one foot in a bear trap discards all solutions that don’t get them out of that trap. They mark those solutions as no good, non-effective, useless, etc. Once out they think they have … Read more
We all understand the idea of bribery. It helps smooth the way, Grease the wheels, Oil the machinery, etc. Ok so? Well, there are many, many other ways to do this. A smile, A joke, A rest break, A change of subject, etc. All of these help smooth the way. If you have … Read more
Con (as in Pro & Con) means ‘against’ Fusion means to join, become part of. So to be in Confusion means to not be able to join the new part with the old. The ‘old’ is everything you have ever seen /heard /done. It has formed a bunch of conclusions. When the new input … Read more
Doing something you don’t want to do? Can’t stop? Then don’t stop. Stop trying the on/off ‘switch’, it obviously doesn’t work for you. Imagine instead you have a Volume Control. Turn down the volume. But not all the way. That would be the same as an on/off switch. Just turn the Volume … Read more
We all have something, someone or a situation we’d like to see changed. Crazy = when you repeat the same things over and over, yet expect Different results. It’s trying Different things /approaches that produces different results. We want things to change without doing anything Different to make it so. You’re Crazy if you … Read more