There is a difference between Description and Judgment. With Description you say almost anything you want and mean absolutely nothing by it. You go on living as if that did not exist. With Judgment, when you say something about someone you then proceed to modify your actions accordingly. Good families scream and yell at each … Read more
Yes, of course I lie. So do you. In fact, I bet everyone lies in every country. “Am I fat?” “Am I ugly?” “Are we almost there?” “Will it hurt?” These are easy answers, …when you lie. What about ‘fat & ugly’ in a business sense. Now you have to compare … Read more
Parents in China are all extremely well respected. And obeyed. After all, they know best. Years and years of experience, etc. Their economy is growing 3 times faster than almost all other economies. Sure they are approximately at our 1960 level. But at 3 times the speed, each 10 years they grow 30 years. … Read more
He sat in a straight backed chair, in a quiet room, dressed in a three piece suit, with an appropriate back light and read Shakespeare. She jiggled into the room dressed in a shear negligee, lit the fire and put on some background music, flopped down onto her belly and read… Shakespeare, of … Read more
Take turns rather than always be the one to Ask or Speak. Even in an interview. Are you married? Children? How much education do you have? etc. Goes much better if after they answer, you say: I have two children myself. No need to elaborate. Just to speak. Annnd, if you … Read more
I was with a couple of ‘lawyers’ (barristers) eating a hamburger. This place offered ‘free’ refills for your drink. So they only ordered one drink and both of them drank from it. Then had a refill, or two, or three… After all, it says ‘free refills’ doesn’t it! These ‘virgins’ claimed they were doing … Read more