401 Silent Partner

Marriage occurs once or twice, in a lifetime.   And, if you really think about it, you met him/her just like you meet everyone. Your assumption /hindsight is that you saw something in their body language. “I saw a sparkle in his /her eye.” or “There’s just something about him /her.”   Boy, you sure can read … Read more

396 Disappearing Act

If you win the Lottery, Yesterday disappears.   If he/she finally says yes, Yesterday disappears.   These are exterior promises of future events, which you use, to forget /neutralize yesterday.   OK, so? This. Leaves. You. Powerless.   The Present is the end of Yesterday, and the beginning of Tomorrow. To the degree you take … Read more

395 Fake it

The full statement is “Fake it, till you make it.”   And it works! Because you just do not believe enough in yourself.  So you need deception to your current belief  but not deception to the real functioning of the self.   Also, Fake it includes eliminating fears. Acting ‘as if’ oft times shows you … Read more

394 Penguins

A Penguin is a stupid thing. I was in Antarctica looking at Penguins walking all in-a-row. Once, the first one tried to jump over a fairly large rock, failed, fell to the side, then got up and continued. The second one? Did the exact same thing. And the third, and the fourth, and so on. … Read more